I thought Bolton WAS supplying drop in controller kits (made by KT) for the Sonders bikes, but I don't see them any more. I think that's what you are after though, a controller that doesn't act like a governor set lower than you want. KT's 35 amp controller should be able to deliver everything your battery has available to the motor - with no restrictions, unless you set one up. Something like that should get you close to 55kmh, but not for long. Going that fast requires a LOT of battery power, and most guys, once they see it WILL go that fast, rarely ever go that fast again. The mileage you get on a charge is going to suck....
Regarding the DIY projects that look like they're done by a 12yo, that's all on you. Some folks just throw a project together, doing whatever is required to get them running, then drive it that way (wires and cables hanging out everywhere). That SAME install, done with some thought/workmanship behind it, can look like a production bike.