Could be a few things. You picked the right chain, so using a cheapie is not the problem. What gear were you in with regard to how far over the chain was skewed? Maybe show us a back-to-front view from the rear so we can see what your chain alignment was at the time of incident? Bad chain alignment can cause trouble even if you didn't do anything wrong in the shift.
Were you shifting at the time of the break? If so and you were pumping 1400w thru it - which would be probably somewhere in the ballpark of 25a - then as the saying goes - "there's your problem".
Interesting you mentioned the stop decay... yeah for sure sounds like you need to dig into that and make that adjustment, and probably several more. If you are shifting without a gear sensor - which is fine if you pay attention to what you are doing - your stutter-step in pedaling gets dicey if you need to put power down to stay upright, but the decay is preventing your shift for a critical second or two. I don't use a gear sensor at all but my motors are set up to cut power pretty much instantly when I stop pedaling.
Riding a lot of singletrack, its probably not a bad idea to have that motor shut down asap, plus have a gear sensor, plus do your stutter-step in pedaling. Would be as safe as possible and then when you are shifting uphill and you need to put power back down thru the cranks to keep from falling over, you do it and the gear sensor is a last line of defense in play.
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@tomjasz said... maybe there was no issue with alignment or shifting/power and you just got unlucky and bought a bad chain. 12S 'e' type chains should be really strong.