It sounds like you're beginning to understand that e-mtb means different things to different riders. Understand some of these mountain bike guys are riding in extreme conditions most would never even give a second look.
Part of their demands will require a bike that's able to climb a wall for instance. That means a mid drive will be required, so they can use the gears built in to the drive train (can you say "granny gear"?). There's little getting around that fact. They're also picky about tire/rim sizes, weight, forks, etc, etc, etc. Bottom line, a good e-mtb is a pretty specialized bike.
The question is, will your riding require something that specialized, or would something that might be better described as a "hybrid" suit you better? I'm a pretty big guy that's used to a LOT of power on tap as it takes quite a bit of power to get this fat butt up some of the hills I need to climb in the area I ride frequently. "Marginal" power is something I'd rather not have to deal with. 1000w geared hubs will work for me, but for hills, I prefer even more power. Mid drive for sure, the bike I have is Bafang Ultra powered, but something like a BBSHD would work just as well (same power as the Ultra, minus torque sensing). When it comes to tires, I don't spend enough time "off road" to justify listening to a knobby style tread on pavement at 12-15mph. I find that noise irritating. Thoughts here all over the ball park, but after trying many of the options, I've found the 27.5" Schwalbe tires in the 2.4 - 2.8 range to be the best compromise for MY riding.
Last thought, a good e-mtb being as specialized as they are, maybe keep something like that in mind for a 2nd or 3rd bike. Something to consider when you get more experience. You WILL be a much more educated buyer/builder at that point. I'll guarantee you that..... -Al