One trick I learned a long time ago is when installing a new drivetrain, buy more than one chain for it and rotate them. Cleaning and lubing 2-3 chains takes only marginally more time than one and chains are (relatively) cheap. I keep two large ziplocs for each bike labelled "dirty chain xx bike" and "clean chain xx bike". When one chain gets dirty, remove and put in the dirty ziploc and install a clean one. Once all of them are dirty, clean and lube all of them. If you do this, you need to do it when the drivetrain is new (otherwise the chain will wear and stretch and a new chain may not mesh reliably with the old drivetrain).
I keep spares too, but mine are in sealed glass jars with denatured alcohol, by the time I'm ready to wax a replacement for the one that's on the bike after a year or more in the alcohol a simple swish and they're almost sparkly clean.
Though since I started waxing I've not even had one swap yet... though watching some current videos I think I see some of the differences. When I started waxing on my 3 speed cruiser 6-7 years ago I tried a bunch of different waxes and universally the grey ones (aka the tungsten) were garbage, mix your own with TPFE. That people talk about that as something "difficult" or "hard to find stuff" leaves me flabbergasted.
And adding tube-lube -- even the dry wax stuff -- after the fact just washes away the wax. Like spraying WD-40 on the outside of your hubs or BB.
But the big difference is time. Seems like most people are putting an hour into waxing and a night into letting it set... When it comes to cleaning, soaking in alcohol to drive out moisture, how long to let it sit in the wax, etc where they're talking minutes, I'm taking hours. And where they're talking hours, I'm talking minutes.
Temp seems off too, I start out at 240F (high on the crock) to drive away any remaining moisture, but when I drop the chain in I set to "warm" (170F) . Drives out moisture, makes the metal expand more as it expands drawing the hot wax in, then as it cools to 170 the metal contracts a little squishing against the wax. And I then leave it for four to five
hours stirring every 20-30 minutes.
Kitchen timer is your friend.
Then when I hang it to drip, I make sure it's a straight line top to bottom and not "wrapped up", and cool it until I can handle it to break up the links. This too helps spread the wax around when it's soft, instead of cracking it up and driving it out / off if it were stone cold. Only once the links are moving freely do I let it sit another hour or two to cool completely before putting it on the bike.
Watching a lot of these videos and reading the websites, it feels like these people have their time distribution backwards. They really think the wax is going to penetrate between the rollers and pins in 30 minutes to an hour at the lowest temp?!? I'm really wondering if this is why I can wet-ride without any issues, whilst people are talking about "rust" I've never even seen.
Like anything else, impatience is your real enemy. As is fear and laziness. People who consider this a lot of "work" or "time" really have me going "the what now?!?" given how simple it is, and it beats the tar out of dicking around with the drivetrain every 50 miles or less.