RE: "The simple facts are:
Handlebar height determines how much weight is on you hands and butt and overall front end grip.
Grips and backsweeps control how that weight is distributed thru your hands"
So, what is being said (??) is that you have to carefully equal the distribution of weight leaning forward on the handlebars vs. less or more to put more on your butt and carefully tweak the exact position, height(s), position(s) to find the sweet spot? I'll be dead in 10 years so I'll assume unless I get it right I'll either A: spend a lot of money for a professional bike fitter to help, B: experiment on my own and hope I am able to zone in on that perfect setting or C: never get it right and continue to experiment with frustration.
Over the last 5-7 years I have experimented and ultimately found 'my' perfect acceptable parameters but it was not an easy experience. Try this, try that, adjust this, adjust that, after a short ride, a long ride, a good day, a bad day, being annoyed vs. being happy that I thought I thought I found the right settings. I put Como handlebars on my Vado 5.0 (I know, this was being discussed as a Tero X conversation, but I feel it might have relevance), I used the Cirrus Suspension Stem as well as the Kinekt Active Suspension Seatpost, it solved all my issues. I may have discussed this in the past on these forums and went into detail, with photos, etc., so at the end of the day, I'm not disagreeing with anyone, each to thier own, and what works for one may not or may work for others.
There is a plethora of conversation on these discussion boards about this subject and liek I said, what works for one may not the other and vice versa.