Dave,
Your stem is 1 1/4" or 31.8 mm. The issue here is the Como stem is non-standard, or
specialized. As the steering tube is (I guess) of the standard A-HEAD size, you could replace the stem with any A-HEAD compatible stem. I simply do not recommend such a revolution to your e-bike especially as you have already invested in your comfortable Jones H Bar handlebars.
Before you make a grave and expensive mistake, let me tell you something. Your Como is equipped with pretty wide tires (2.3"). Look at the inflation pressure spec at the tire sidewall. Now, inflate/deflate tires to about half the pressure between the minimum and maximum. You will notice how smooth your ride has become! It is because the tires are the primary means to soften rapid road vibration.
Full suspension is greatly over-hyped. I used to own a premium Giant FS e-MTB and learned one thing: The full suspension is not the thing for the ride comfort but rather to maintain the bike traction in any terrain. The comfort function is just a side-effect. Full suspension can dampen slow road vibrations but it is helpless with rapid vibration (and that's where your half inflated tires win).
R&M?
- Very expensive
- Heavy
- A Bosch e-bike. After you have ridden a Specialized, the last thing you need is a Bosch e-bike Especially as R&M seems to be unable to implement the latest Bosch Smart System
- The full suspension as used in R&M e-bikes is mediocre compared to what you find in e-MTBs.
Just think, analyse, learn, consider.
And you know what? I gave my full suspension Giant Trance E+ 2 Pro to my brother as a family gift. I've found I am more happy with properly equipped Specialized e-bikes. I use a Baramind BAM Trek suspension handlebars and Kinekt 2.1 suspension seatpost on my full power Vado 5.0 (plus 2" half inflated tires), and Redshift ShockStop system on my Vado SL. With my 19,000 km (11,800 mi) e-biking experience I do not need anything else...