Hi, I'm a new member who decided to stop "lurking" and join to contribute. I purchased a 2019 Quick Neo in size L in August 2019 for under $2800 (on sale) from REI and have really enjoyed it. Mine is not the Quick Neo EQ (equipped). My version doesn't have fenders and lights, and has a nine speed drivetrain with an 11-36 cassette and a 38T crank. The EQ has the 38T crank, but a ten speed 11-42 cassette, so it has a slightly lower gear for climbing, and has the fenders and lights. The battery (500 Wh) and motor (Bosch Active Line Plus) are the same between the Quick Neo and the Quick Neo EQ. I can do long steep climbs on my Quick Neo with no problem, so the gearing is sufficient, and I am not even in the lowest gear. I bought the Quick Neo at REI since they had one in stock in L that I could test ride, and I bought it on the spot. If they instead had a 2019 Quick Neo EQ, I might have bought that, but its list price was higher, it wasn't on sale, and they didn't have it in stock. I would have liked having the built in lights and the ten speed drivetrain, but I didn't care about the fenders (in fact the fenders would be a hassle with our hitch mount bike carrier, which has arms which lock on top of the tires.) My Quick Neo size large is about 42.5 lbs, and I'm guessing that the size L Quick Neo EQ is probably about 43.5 to 44 lbs. These are reasonable weights for Bosch mid drive bikes.
The current Tesoro Neo 3 has one advantage and several disadvantages compared to the 2019 Quick Neo EQ. The advantage is the suspension fork, if that is important to you. The disadvantages are increased weight, nine speed vs. ten speed drivetrain, and a 400 Wh battery, which might be important to you for range.
I added a CaneCreek Thudbuster ST seat post to my bike, and a Redshift suspension stem, along with front and rear Bontrager lights (self powered), a Serfas Dorado saddle along with several other minor items. I love the bike and find it comfortable to ride and I do a lot of hills at altitude. I come from a traditional non-electric road bike and occasional flat bar bike background, and I find that the Bosch mid-drive system feels very natural to me - it just makes me feel stronger, but you still pedal and shift appropriately like on a traditional bike. I can set the assist level to get plenty of exercise, and do long climbs that I could do ten years ago but can't do now un-assisted.
I plan several upgrades to the bike. If the Bosch Kiox display and controller become generally available as an aftermarket purchase, I plan to replace the Purion display/controller with it. Nothing wrong with the Purion - it is simple to operate and easy to read, but the Kiox provides much more information, such as rider power output, which I would enjoy seeing. Generally bikes with the Kiox display cost $ thousands more than those with the Purion display, so it makes sense to simply upgrade to the Kiox on my bike, instead of buying a new bike. I also would like built in head and tail lights wired into the Bosch system, as opposed to my separately powered Bontrager lights, which I have to turn on front and back manually, and take the lights off of the bike to charge after several rides. My wife was a Trek Dual Sport + that has built in lights that come on when she turns on her controller.
Let me know if you have any other questions. I have over 500 miles on my bike, and it has been trouble free and I really enjoy it. I'd say if you don't need the suspension fork and the 2019 Quick Neo EQ is priced lower than the Tesoro Neo 3, I would go for the Quick Neo EQ, as you get a bigger battery and the better ten speed drivetrain.