The motor output is variable. In theory you can pedal the exact amount you want, and then adjust the motor for exactly the amount of power you want. This is basically what a good throttle does. You set it where you want. You pedal what you want.
A cadence sensor knows you are moving the pedals. So it can apply some amount of power when it senses movement. It can figure out your cadence, the times the pedals turn per minute. But that information isn't that valuable. If you pedal 'fast', it doesn't know why. It can guess, and you can change the amount of power it is applying when it guesses. When you try to start of loose dirt? When you make a turn? If there is a patch of ice? Does it know what to do?
A torque sensor can measure actual force. It knows when you are working hard, and it knows when there is force on the pedals. It can make a better guess, especially with more sensors.
You have to consider all the situations any sensor has to measure. What should it do when the pedals start turning, from a stop? What should happen when you are straining to get up a hill? How often should you have to adjust the assist level, and for what reasons? How programmable should the assist be? There are a lot of complaints about cadence sensor systems with aggressive programming. People don't always know what is going to happen.
Any automated sensor throttle can probably be set for normal cruise, like a commuter cruise. Chinese bikes have cruise controls. You get the speed you want and push the button. It holds the speed, even into wind and up hills. If you pedal harder, the motor lets up a bit. It's cheap, and works with the throttle. For any assist, find some setting where it gives you the power you need to cruise at 20 mph. If you hit a hill, maybe you bump up the assist level.
I'm pretty sure the concept "It feels more like a bike" is subjective. I know I have motors. I want them to do what I want. I didn't walk into the ebike store and say "Wow, I would really like to feel like Superman". I wanted to exercise but not struggle up hills. A throttle makes it feel more like an ebike, to me. I'm in control. And the cruise control automates it.
They could make better throttles, better speed controls. A lot of torque sensing systems cost more than basic motors. If they offered some programming choices through a bluetooth app any pedal assist might work for most people, especially with throttle over-ride.