In my
opinion less is more makes a lot of sense, when it comes to saddles. When memory foam saddles hit the market years ago I tried one thinking it might be nice. It was painful! If your riding very short distances a couple times a week, a large, soft saddle may be comfortable for you. If you're riding 20 or 30+ miles several times a week, a large, soft saddle can be very painful and less efficient for pedaling.
For me, a firm saddle is the best defense against pain. A saddle has to be firm enough for your sit bones to raise your perineum off the saddle to minimize pressure, and a saddle can't be so large and soft to put pressure on the nerves at the base of your spine. The sit bones are essentially the base of your pelvic bone, the massive bone structure that encompasses the hips and base of the spine. Simplistic description, I know (no medical training here
), but it works with regard to cycling. Sit-bones are able to support you very well and will hold your body up keeping pressure from creating nerve pain. Pressure on the nerves can do bizarre things like, tingling and numbness in your extremities. Hands, fingers, feet and toes... and yes men that extremity too
With time it can cause permanent damage.
I personally like the split or imperial saddles, they eliminate any pressure on the perineum and they allow air flow to keep you dry. I ride a Brooks B17 Imperial and I love it. Many can't see comfort in it, but my current B17 has many miles and many years on it, with no signs of wearing out anytime soon. Comfortable too!
Time in the saddle, any saddle is required to break it and the rider in. A Brooks leather saddle will take a lot more time to break in than a synthetic saddle but the Brooks will outlast most all other saddles by decades in most cases if taken care of. Saddles, pedals and grips are very personal cycling accessories, there's no one size fits all.
I thought this advice from Sheldon Brown important to remember for anyone new or renewed to cycling, or after any riding layoff.
"Every spring, bike shops sell scads of saddles to cyclists who come in because their old saddle has become uncomfortable since they stopped cycling in the fall. They went out for a ride or two, and found it much less comfortable than they remembered from the previous year. They've heard about the latest buzzword in saddle gimmicks, and they want one of those!
They buy the new saddle, put it on the bike, go for a few more rides, and find they're much more comfortable. They tell all their friends about their wonderful new saddle, and how they need one too...
But was it really the new, high-tech saddle...or was it just that the rider had become unaccustomed to cycling over the winter layoff? In many cases, working your way up over the course of a few short rides of gradually increasing length is all that is necessary, if you have a decent-quality saddle, properly adjusted. If you have previously been comfortable on your present saddle, don't be in a hurry to change."
https://www.sheldonbrown.com/saddles.html