Jtss617,
Tomjaz is trying to help, as are the others in this forum. Each of us has a particular style and sense of humor (albeit in Tomjasz case, it's kinda warped). Nobody is trying to insult you. Tomjasz has helped a lot of people solve problems on this board, myself included. I would ask of you, if you want help, please answer our questions so that we can help you methodically eliminate possible causes of the problem. The only way we can help you diagnose your problem is through the process of elimination and deductive reasoning.
From what I can tell, you have a bike with BBSHD, with a new clutch, new chain ring, new controller, and a new chain.
You put a new clutch in, to fix the problem and now "whatever makes it’s skip or shake or what ever it’s doing, destroyed the clutch".
What we don't know, (some of which we asked previously) is:
Did you acquire the bike with this existing problem?
If the problem occurred under your ownership did you make any mods just before the problem manifested?
Anything else significant occur just before the problem manifested? (crash?)
What did the previous clutch look like? Was it "destroyed"? Do you still have it? If "yes" send pics.
So, the current clutch in the motor is a "destroyed" clutch?
When you say "destroyed", what do you mean? Can you share detailed pictures of the "destroyed" clutch (especially the pawls).
(I just destroyed the clutch (pawls) in my rear hub. The teeth were sheared off.)
Can you share pictures of the inner ring gear teeth that the clutch pawls engage. They could be sheared or worn.
Why did you replace the clutch? Was the install performed by you, or somebody else.
Did you install the new chain? Why?
Is the chain falling to the inside of the chain ring or the outside?
Is this a rear single speed or multi speed cog set? If multi speed, how many speeds.
If multi speed, Is it a Freewheel or Shimano style hub
Is the chain the proper chain for the number of cogs? There is a difference in chain sizes for the number of cogs.
May we see Pics of the chain alignment from the rear middle cog to the chainring.
May we see side pics of the chain setup from the rear cogs and derailleur to the chain ring?
There are a lot of very experienced ebikers here and we really need this info to help you. My hunch is that your problem is with your clutch pawls, and/or the ring gear teeth that engage the pawls. If the inner ring gear teeth are bad, or some are broken, that could cause skipping and uneven force applied to the chainring as the pawls are engaged when stressed/under load. It may spin fine while not under load. If the pawls are chipped or cracked that could do it too.
Just a hunch. That being said, if you would be so kind as to answer the above questions and send over the needed pics, we shall endeavor to help you.