You should measure "very steep". 7/8" rise on a 6" spirit level is 14.6%.
I traverse a very hilly area and I have available 24:32 to 52:11 . I never use the top end as I do not like to go over 28 mph, but sometimes, especially when the throttle is dead due to rain and I am carrying 60 lb groceries, I use the 24:32 up 14.6%. I have a hub drive, on front to maintain the triple front sprocket and 8 speed rear. My rear derailleur has gotten to where it only upshifts 500 yards after I push the trigger, so I leave the rear on speed 4 and shift the front down to 24 when I am climbing. Up to 42 on the flat. I have replaced everything but the sprockets, including slick stainless cable and lubricated jaguar housing, and it does not help. I notice a trek 7100 MTB has the housing interrupted in the middle to cut the friction. I do not have a battery in the winter, when it goes below freezing here.
Standard mid-drive sprocket is 46, with some internal down gearing. Unless your wife is very light and never carries cargo, I would suggest buying the 42 option. On road you probably will not need a rear sprocket bigger than 32. 11 is not strictly necessary, and may skip.