John Chow
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That's fine until the day that it rings, whilst you are pretending.
Phone will never ring. It'll be a text, instant message, WhatsApp or WeChat. Do people still talk on the phone?
That's fine until the day that it rings, whilst you are pretending.
Couple thoughts here @Charly Banana,
Okay, jokes aside... I've always found that being friendly and interested is a good strategy for people who are misbehaving. You may feel like "why am I being nice to jerks?" but maybe nobody has ever really been nice to them, they might have had abusive parents or just absent parents. They may have jobs they hate, significant others that are leeching off of them or worse. Being nice is free and often times it can actually make you a friend and then they will feel accepted and stop their negative behavior.
- They were only following you like that because they were drafting and needed a break
- They are colorblind and with all of that yellow you were wearing they didn't realize you were even there
So here's a scenario "punk-ass cyclists tail you and begin teasing about the bike" look back and say "Oh hi! Wow, I love your red Namebrand road bike... I used to have one kind of like that in the 70's, are you guys training for an event?!" and then they say "Uh, this is actually the new Namebrand BlaBla Bike, we're just out for a ride" and then you say "I wish I could still ride like you guys, most of my friends can't ride at all anymore and my arthritis limits me a bit but I've got this funky bike that helps me get out every once in a while, I hope you guys have a wonderful ride!" and then move slightly to the side to let them pass.
Marc,Hikers still hate MTB's, Court . But they hate equestrian users more. I never understood why people get so passionate about what others do. It is irrational. Sp what if I am on an e-bike? As long as I don't pose a hazard to someone else, it is irrelevant. Who cares if that guy ran a stop sign? Do I care if someone is outfitted in Lycra and riding a $10,000 S-Works Tarmac? No. And nor should any of us. And we should get the same respect.
When I got into cycling a year ago, partially for work and partially for health, I went whole hog, because that is what I do. I obsess a bit. So now I have a carbon road bike, a steel tourer, and an e-bike. I put 50 miles on each one on an average week. At times I float in and out of each circle. And the vast majority are good people. It is a shame that the actions of so few can impact the perception of so many. In 20 days I will be participating in the Pelotonia. This is an event where 100% of funds raised go to cancer research at the James Cancer Center at Ohio State. My company will have over 1,600 riders going from 25 miles to 100 miles. All will have raised at least $1,200. The entire event will top 7,000 riders on the streets of Columbus. We raised over $14 million last year. Not a penny to admin or event costs. When you ride, people line the streets with pictures of loved ones, some with us and some not. They will ring cowbells and blast air horns. Cheering and urging us on. It is moving. Last year at mile 22, I saw a picture of a boy that couldn't have been older than 4, who died of lymphoma (according to the sign) and his whole family was out supporting the riders. I almost teared up right there. You can't see that or be a part of this event and not realize that a ton of people who ride bikes are good people with good intentions. I'll be doing 50 miles on the road bike this year, with the goal of doing the century next year. Seems like a small sacrifice for what is at stake.
All that said, I wish Charly the best and that it doesn't happen again.
Hikers still hate MTB's, Court . But they hate equestrian users more. I never understood why people get so passionate about what others do. It is irrational. Sp what if I am on an e-bike? As long as I don't pose a hazard to someone else, it is irrelevant. Who cares if that guy ran a stop sign? Do I care if someone is outfitted in Lycra and riding a $10,000 S-Works Tarmac? No. And nor should any of us. And we should get the same respect.
When I got into cycling a year ago, partially for work and partially for health, I went whole hog, because that is what I do. I obsess a bit. So now I have a carbon road bike, a steel tourer, and an e-bike. I put 50 miles on each one on an average week. At times I float in and out of each circle. And the vast majority are good people. It is a shame that the actions of so few can impact the perception of so many. In 20 days I will be participating in the Pelotonia. This is an event where 100% of funds raised go to cancer research at the James Cancer Center at Ohio State. My company will have over 1,600 riders going from 25 miles to 100 miles. All will have raised at least $1,200. The entire event will top 7,000 riders on the streets of Columbus. We raised over $14 million last year. Not a penny to admin or event costs. When you ride, people line the streets with pictures of loved ones, some with us and some not. They will ring cowbells and blast air horns. Cheering and urging us on. It is moving. Last year at mile 22, I saw a picture of a boy that couldn't have been older than 4, who died of lymphoma (according to the sign) and his whole family was out supporting the riders. I almost teared up right there. You can't see that or be a part of this event and not realize that a ton of people who ride bikes are good people with good intentions. I'll be doing 50 miles on the road bike this year, with the goal of doing the century next year. Seems like a small sacrifice for what is at stake.
All that said, I wish Charly the best and that it doesn't happen again.