Let me suggest two videos that are very informative. One is directly related to how well a geared hub motor performs. Being in Europe, it's limited to 250 watts nominal. You can see it here.
The other is a demonstration of how well the Crosscurrent S performs in hilly terrain. Longish video; the hilly part starts about halfway through. It can be seen here.
Draw your own conclusions. I think you'll find these more useful than another long post.
I don't question the performance of the geared hub motors especially when the goofy low power limit is considered - a 250-350W direct drive would not be adequate for good performance. In reality the power regulation in Europe and the US is nebulous because motors alone can't be defined by a power rating data point like that no matter what the eBike OEMs try to tell you.
When you get to 750W (still not a good way to specify a motor but it's a scale so I'll use it) and higher peak power a direct drive hub motor because a worthy eBike drive motor.
I think the long term reliability more than makes up for the lower torque to wattage capability. Keep in mind that geared hub motors kind of peak out at 500W because too much higher and the gears have to be made more robust to have a decent life cycle. My engineering mindset just tells me to go gearless if the performance meets your needs.
Note: The vast majority of hot rod DIY ebikes are large gearless hub motors rated from 1500-3000Ws with the higher power models being able to hit 35mph+ speeds with throttle only mode. I think the rider should have to pedal to be a bike and I think at some point the power is overkill because a cruise speed around 35mph/55kph is going to feel very fast on a bike for even good riders so anything faster really should be a DOT approved and street designed moped or motorcycle.