I don't think that's the whole story. True, an ebike battery, being bigger, will likely burn longer and hotter than a cell phone battery, but a cell phone battery can still act as an ignition source and burn your house down, if it failed. But most of the batteries in the things I (and others ) listed are made by name brand companies with decent quality control standards (and decent BMS...) so (I think...) damaging fires are much rarer.Thankfully, most of the devices above are small and less likely to burn your house down than an e-bike battery fire would.
Note, for example, how the concerns of airlines for smartphone and computer battery fires have decreased in the past few years.