Buying a House Advice Thread

Back in 1979 when I was home shopping, the prices and interest rates were out of my reach even then.

Instead, I bought land with the cash I had, used it as collateral for a construction loan and built my own home. It took 2 years to get it livable, but I leveraged the sweat equity and it paid off in the end. Doing the work myself circumvented a lot of inspections and red tape. I had help, learned a lot and it was a very satisfying experience.

I did have to take out a home improvement loan at 11% interest to finish the place. Rest assured I paid off that puppy very quickly!
 
OP probably gone but don't worry about timing.

Buy what you like at what you can afford and can live in for 5-10 years.

Stretch a bit if you can (like getting that 2br instead of a 1br).
 
I bought my first home when I was 25 years old, three years out of college, with a good job, and a low 5 figure college debt. It was that low because I was on a co-op program which paid me a decent wage when not in school, plus I worked a second job at a bike shop, and also did work study. Three jobs. I got the house a day before it was foreclosed on. The front door was kicked in. The owner let the oil tank run out. This was December. The pipes burst and the basement flooded. The fire company shut the power off. It had psychedelic shag carpeting and multiple layers of velour wallpaper throughout. Inspections? Hahahahahaha. You want it, it's yours. I put 5% down and the rest on a one year ARM at 17%. I had $500 to my name after closing. I moved in with an air mattress and a sleeping bag. I very quickly learned how to sweat copper pipes. I studied the electrical code and fixed wiring where needed, and added outlets. Underneath the shag carpets were red oak plank floors. I rented a floor machine and refinished them. Underneath the velour wallpaper were plaster walls. I learned how to skim coat and painted them. The following year I gutted the kitchen, and hired a carpenter to help me move a window and exhaust fan, lay floor tile, and install new kitchen cabinets, countertop, and an oak breakfast bar. A few months later, after I proposed to Mrs. Stomp in the living room, I sold the house for 2.5x what I paid for it and moved to the next town over into a much larger home. I sold the house myself and bought from the new home owner.

All this crap about greed is just that. Crap. Let me ask you, think of some of the GenY and GenZ people that you know. How many of them would do what I did in order to get their first home? I can list the ones I know on one hand. The rest want the perfect 3+BR fairly new home in the perfect neighborhood right from the start. They want perfection now. New cars. Destination weddings. No dirty hands. No compromise.

Beyond this, what is making first home purchases increasingly unaffordable are two things. First, is easy credit through FTHB programs. The mortgages are sold on the secondary market as financial investments. This drives the cost of homes up. Second, is the massive influx of investors snatching single family homes away from owners that want to occupy them. This group includes neighborhood associations, local and regional investment groups, and huge national financial institutions. If they want a home, they will bid with no upper limit. This prices out the regular folks. The main drivers of this are AirBNB, VRBO, and the like. Short term rentals are big business. This market is only regulated at the local level. It will take legislation, and hopefully federal legislation, to fix this. I hope that this happens sooner rather than later. Markets only work with guidelines.
 
100%.
Theyre on twhatter moaning that boomers bought houses for 70 grand and are now worth a million.

70 grand was a million back then.
Well, at least $700K. The price difference between my first home and current home is over 10x. My first salary as an engineer was $25K. I never made even close to $250K during my career. That's another, and very different, issue.
 
Inflation is a fact of life. The problem with most of this upcoming generation is bad credit and poor spending habits. If you want to buy a house have all your ducks in a row and be prepared. That includes credit score and cash on hand for a down payment. I used to hang out with a guy who not only wanted to keep up with the Jones but he wanted to be the Jones! I might post the story later. Anyways, if you want it bad enough be ready to make life changes if needed.
 
When I first started back in 82 my line manager earned 5K, that post now pulls in 75K.
the realtors are plenty greedy around here my SIL home was sold for taxes,we didn't hear a word about it"speedy mcgreedy realtor got it for 11K and finally out of the goodness of his heart let my brother have it for something around 30K$( its next door(btw) when he found out there might have been some pushback on the water rights, around that time a well would cost $25K with no guarantee of water for average well depth here is 700' what I believe in is "first refusal"( makes for a lot better relationship with the neighbors) when everyone is offered a chance its quiets a lot of dissent.
 
the realtors are plenty greedy around here my SIL home was sold for taxes,we didn't hear a word about it"speedy mcgreedy realtor got it for 11K and finally out of the goodness of his heart let my brother have it for something around 30K$( its next door(btw) when he found out there might have been some pushback on the water rights, around that time a well would cost $25K with no guarantee of water for average well depth here is 700' what I believe in is "first refusal"( makes for a lot better relationship with the neighbors) when everyone is offered a chance its quiets a lot of dissent.
Sounds like smart business to me.
 
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