Ebikes tend to be heavier, and faster. So they hit things harder. More spokes are not a bad thing in that scenario. I personally typically use 32 hole rims, and completely stay away from bladed spokes (or God forbid c/f bladed spokes). Also brass nipples not alloy. And heavier double-butted spokes like the Sapim Strong, which will happily fit in my DT Swiss hubs (Sapim makes an E-Strong that is so overbuilt it will not). The only ebike wheel where I broke spokes used DT Alpines. Which was a crying shame for the wheel - which had to be restrung - and my wallet.
This whole heavier/harder/faster thing is also why you are seeing a resurgence in the use of steel in, for example, a quality cassette cluster vs. where a cyclist would expect it to be found: on a Walmart bike.
With all of that said, your bike is barely an ebike. The motor outputs 40 Nm which is not a lot. Frame and fork weigh in at under 4 1/4 pounds. The entire motor+battery system come in at 3.5kg, so there's your weight increase for the electrics. I think it goes without saying your speeds aren't going to be elevated on such a bike.
I would not shy away from c/f rims so long as they are biased for strength and not underbuilt for light weight. I'd also go extra strong on the spokes. Maybe you can do 28 still. I'd talk to your wheelbuilder about that once s/he knows your chosen rim. As I am sure you know the best rim is not the rigid one, but rather one that has some compliance built in, so that all factors into an overall picture that I don't think we can know here on a discussion forum. If it were me though I'd err on the side strength and not weight-weeniness.